03/10/2025
By Pastor Vinnie Cappetta
"Loving the Unlovable: Forgiving Those Who Need It Most"
(Matthew 5:43-48)
Loving those who love us is easy. But what about those who hurt, betray, or reject us? Jesus calls us to something radical—loving even our enemies. This kind of love isn’t natural; it’s supernatural. It reflects the heart of God, who loved us even when we were still sinners (Romans 5:8).
In Matthew 5:43-45, Jesus challenges us:
“You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven.” (Matthew 5:43-45a, NIV)
Jesus doesn’t just suggest love—He commands it. Why? Because love is at the core of who God is (1 John 4:8). If we only love those who love us back, our love remains ordinary. But when we love those who don’t deserve it, we reflect the very nature of God.
Loving difficult people isn’t easy. It may feel unfair. It may even be painful. But love has an eternal reward.
- When someone insults you—love.
- When you face betrayal—love.
- When your kindness is met with rejection—love.
Not by your own strength, but by the power of Christ in you.
Because God is love (1 John 4:8), and as long as He remains in us, we have the power to choose love.
Reflection Questions:
- When was the last time you showed love to someone difficult?
- Is there someone in your life who mistreats you? Will you commit to praying for them today?
- How does your love and forgiveness reflect the heart of God?
“Be perfect (mature), therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.” (Matthew 5:48, NIV)
Loving the unlovable is how the world will recognize Christ in us. So let’s love—even when it’s hard, even when it costs us—because that’s how Jesus loves us.
